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A Litmus Test For Life: Are You Doing Enough Of It To Talk About?
She tells me that she realizes she has been talking a lot about him lately and that is a sign that this relationship is moving way too fast. I agree. It is all you have been talking about. Well it’s going to stop. I am going to get re-centered. Do you know how you can tell when that will happen? No.
You will talk about something else. When you are completely re-centered you will talk about a lot of things. What people talk about says a lot about their lives. They don’t realize that they display the breadth and depth of their interests in what they say. Not that this is an indicator of intelligence, but it can tell you something about what makes them tick.
All I heard about the first six months was stuff going on with this one guy. We got through that and then it was about this group of friends. We got through that and then it was a new guy. Day and night she texted about him and the drama surrounding this supposed “friendship”. It’s all I heard. When the bottom finally fell out she said well I need to get back to life. I kind of put everything on hold. Yes I know. You never talked about anything that made me believe you were doing anything besides live and breath drama with this one person.
Create a life in such a way so that when people ask you how you are you have a lot to talk…
